And it's possible to say yes to a person (reflect what you see in them, value them) but no to an idea. Good distinction.
There's only accepting...the choosing was done a long time ago.
I am distinguishing mental suffering from physical pain. Pain occurs in the body and is a physical reaction—like when you stub your toe or break an arm. The suffering I speak of occurs in the mind only and describes things such as worry, anger, anxiety, regret, jealousy, shame, and a host of other negative mental states. I know it’s a big claim to say that all these kinds of suffering are the result of a fictitious sense of self. For now, the essence of this idea is captured brilliantly by Taoist philosopher and author Wei Wu Wei when he writes, “Why are you unhappy? Because 99.9 percent of everything you think, and of everything you do, is for yourself — and there isn’t one.”
00:58 1. Who are you spending time with?
01:43 2. Is this in my control?
02:34 3. What does your ideal day look like?
03:41 4. To be or to do?
04:30 5. If I am not for me, who is? If I am only for me, who am I?
05:31 6. What am I missing by choosing to worry or be afraid?
06:15 7. Are you doing your job?
06:59 8. What is the most important thing?
08:07 9. Who is this for?
08:48 10. Does this actually matter?
09:38 11. Will this be alive time or dead time?
10:49 12. Is this who I want to be?
11:33 BONUS: What is the meaning of life?
Skill...Life is not pleasurable without learning a skill or discipline. Hmmm..
It's a piece of music where you're expected to sing or play or add to the composition as it is played...Or a dance...It's not a destination on a journey. Enjoy the journey is right but more...life is the journey....life is a piece of music and you are...a player. Harmonize, contribute as best you can. Don't rush to the end.
Newton's flaming laser sword: If something cannot be settled by experiment or observation, then it is not worthy of debate.
Explore the ancient Greek philosophy of cynicism, which calls for the rejection of materialism and conformity in favor of a simple life.
Right on! Thx @profgalloway.
The Prince was written FOR nice guys because nice guys do finish last IF they always behave nicely.
Charles Bukowski
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Positivity is not naivety. Not even close.
“"Happiness is pretty simple —
someone to love,
something to do,
something to look forward to."
We humans know more truths than any species on earth. Yet we also believe the most falsehoods.
1) Have a purpose 2) Effectively communicate that purpose with everything you do 3) Be authentic 4) Don't worry about time
How to compose a successful critical commentary:
You should attempt to re-express your target’s position so clearly, vividly, and fairly that your target says, “Thanks, I wish I’d thought of putting it that way.
You should list any points of agreement (especially if they are not matters of general or widespread agreement).
You should mention anything you have learned from your target.
Only then are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism.
Really good argument that hierarchies are needed for us to aspire and make goals--equality hurts progress because it gives us nothing (less?) to aspire for as individuals. Also, comparing yourself with others is NOT helpful. Compare only with yourself and mark progress (or loss). Focus on Incremental changes, which operate like compound interest and can turn your life around.
Surprisingly serious analysis of the evolving philosophy of justice in Wonder Woman. Who knew?